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0752 121 3796

Counselling and Psychotherapy: Focusing on Male-Centered Psychology

Counselling for Men in Newton Abbot & Online.  A space to, feel, speak and be heard.



Empowered to be...

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Empowered to be...

I’m a male‑centred counsellor based in Newton Abbot, specializing in male psychology and working with men who feel overwhelmed, shut down, or stuck in their own heads. If you’re carrying more than you let on—pressure, anger, shame, numbness, or the sense that you “should be coping better”—you’re in the right place. My work helps you stead

I’m a male‑centred counsellor based in Newton Abbot, specializing in male psychology and working with men who feel overwhelmed, shut down, or stuck in their own heads. If you’re carrying more than you let on—pressure, anger, shame, numbness, or the sense that you “should be coping better”—you’re in the right place. My work helps you steady your emotions, understand what’s happening in your body, and rebuild confidence in who you are. 


If you’re here, you’re already doing something important. Most men arrive at this point quietly, scrolling, thinking, weighing things up. Maybe you’re choosing between counsellors or considering online counselling as an option. Maybe you’re not even sure counselling is the move yet. That’s completely fine. Reaching this page already shows intention, strength, and a desire for things to change. Take your time. This site is designed to provide you with straightforward answers and a clear sense of what working together looks like. 


⭐ What clients say: Read my 5‑star Google reviews. 


How I work: I’m a professional counsellor offering both online counselling and face-to-face counselling sessions from a private, warm, confidential room here in Newton Abbot (with parking available). This space is designed to help you talk openly about things you wouldn’t normally say out loud, without judgement, pressure, or expectation. My approach is grounded, practical, and tailored to you. We slow things down, make sense of what’s going on inside you, and build tools you can actually use in real life. 


Training & approach: I draw from Person‑Centred Therapy, Solution‑Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT), Compassionate Inquiry, and somatic approaches. No two men are the same, so the work adapts to what you need, rather than adhering to a rigid model. At the core of my practice is empathy, clarity, and gentle challenge. I listen closely, help you understand your patterns, and support you in moving toward the life you want. Everything you share is held in strict confidence (with the standard legal exceptions explained in my privacy policy). 


Why I specialise in men’s mental health: Many men grow up with messages like “man up,” “don’t cry,” or “just get on with it.” These early lessons can lead to emotional suppression, relationship struggles, anger, shutdown, or feeling disconnected from yourself. My work creates space to question these inherited beliefs, understand their origins, and build healthier, more authentic ways of being. Vulnerability here isn’t weakness; it’s strength, clarity, and self-respect. If you want to know more about me and why I work with men's well-being, click this link about me. 


⭐ What clients say: Read my 5‑star Google reviews.

Frequently Asked Questions

Please reach me at info@empoweredtobe.co.uk if you cannot find an answer to your question.

 

It’s completely normal to feel unsure about which counsellor is right for you or whether counselling is even the right step. Most men arrive here quietly — thinking, scrolling, weighing things up.

A good counsellor won’t mind your questions. They’ll help you make an informed decision, even if you choose someone else. If you’d like to know more about how I work or whether I’m the right fit, feel free to message me and I’ll get back to you as soon as I can.

I’m a male‑centred counsellor based in Newton Abbot, offering trauma‑informed and somatic therapy for men across Devon, online or face to face.

Empowered to Be... is a counselling service built on the belief that every person deserves the space, tools and autonomy to shape the life they want. The work is practical, individualised and focused on helping you strengthen your mindset, understand your emotional landscape and make decisions that align with who you want to become.

A core focus of Empowered to Be is male‑centred psychology. Many men carry outdated expectations, generational pressure and unspoken emotional rules — messages like “man up” or “don’t cry.” These patterns can lead to emotional shutdown, strained relationships and a sense of disconnection. My work challenges these narratives with clarity and respect, creating a space where men can explore what they’ve inherited and choose what to keep, change or let go.

This isn’t about weakness. It’s about strength through honesty, building emotional resilience and developing healthier, more grounded ways of relating to yourself and the people you care about. I offer trauma‑informed, somatic and practical counselling in Newton Abbot, supporting men across Devon online or face to face.

You can book an appointment with Empowered to be... by calling me direct, emailing me info@emoweredtobe.co.uk or by filling out an online booking form on our website.

Yes, counsellors are registered with professional bodies that maintain national registers. These registers confirm that counsellors have met professional proficiency standards and are competent and safe. It's worth mentioning that the counselling industry is not regulated. However, counsellors like myself voluntarily register with reputable professional bodies, such as the BACP  British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy  (which I am registered with) or the NCPS NCPS | Counselling Matters. Feel free to visit their websites for more information about their ethical frameworks. Additionally, if you wish to make a complaint about a counsellor, there is a formal complaints procedure in place. 

Empowered to Be offers one‑to‑one and online counselling tailored to your needs. I’m a male‑centred counsellor in Newton Abbot, using trauma‑informed, somatic and practical approaches to help men understand what’s going on inside and move forward with confidence. I listen with empathy and ask thoughtful, relevant questions so you feel understood from your perspective. Together, we develop tools and strategies to help you make clearer, more confident decisions now and in the future. 

Counseling modalities refer to different types of therapy designed to enhance a client's well-being. The choice of modality, or even a combination of modalities, depends on the specific issues the client is facing, such as trauma, grief, relationship challenges, or work-related stress. 

In short, yes — counselling can help. Many men feel pressure from relationships, work, finances or grief, and rarely give themselves the time or space to understand what they’re feeling. Therapy creates that space. It helps you slow down, make sense of your thoughts and emotions, and realise that what you’re experiencing is okay.

If you’re unsure whether counselling is right for you, that’s completely normal. I’m a male‑centred counsellor in Newton Abbot, and I’m happy to answer any questions you have. Feel free to send me a message and I’ll get back to you soon. I invite you to watch this short clip to help you make up your mind   Psychotherapy 

Who are you? You, are you, There is only one you, There will not be another you, To be the best version of you, you, need to embrace you, You are amazing, Believe in you, You can achieve amazing things, So who or what is stopping you, from being you?

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Male-centred Psychology.

Traditional ideas of masculinity—such as stoicism, emotional suppression, and self-reliance—are outdated and continue to discourage men from seeking help. This reluctance contributes to rising rates of male suicide and addiction, as emotional pain often goes unaddressed. To change this, we need to reframe masculinity to embrace emotional honesty and vulnerability. Face to face counselling for men is not a luxury; it’s essential. It helps prevent suicide, reduce addiction, and foster emotional wellbeing. Vulnerability isn’t weakness; it’s simply being human. It’s how we heal, grow, and truly connect. For those who prefer it, online counselling is also a viable option. I invite you to watch this short clip: How much do you know about male psychology?

Fear, stress and anxiety

My face to face counselling and online counselling services are designed to help you overcome fear, stress, and anxiety. I create a supportive and non-judgmental environment where you can explore your thoughts and feelings, gain insights into your behaviour, and develop strategies to feel empowered in managing strong emotions that may be influencing your decisions. This approach also takes into account aspects of male psychology, ensuring tailored support for men facing these challenges.

Grief

Grief is a natural response to loss, much like a wave that comes in strong and gradually fades over time. In face to face counselling, we provide a safe space for you to explore your feelings, process your loss, and learn healthy coping mechanisms to effectively manage your grief. It's important to understand that grief does not solely arise from the death of a loved one; it can also stem from other forms of loss, such as separation, the loss of a home, a job, or a treasured possession. For those seeking flexibility, online counselling options are available to accommodate your needs, including specialized approaches that consider male psychology.

Walking therapy

Have you heard of walking therapy? It's similar to regular face to face counselling, but you do it outside while walking. It’s a fantastic way to combine exercise with improving your mental health. There are many beautiful places we can explore together, such as by the sea or in the quiet woods not far from the practice. If you're interested in male psychology or would like more information about online counselling options, please contact me.

Trauma

Trauma is similar to carrying a heavy backpack after experiencing something tough or frightening. It can weigh a guy down with feelings such as anxiety, sadness, or even numbness. Face to face counselling can help to lighten that load, much like removing some of the weight from the backpack, making it easier to carry. Given that trauma can manifest in various ways, particularly in male psychology, the more complex it is, the more crucial it becomes to take a closer look and unpack it piece by piece. Additionally, online counselling offers a convenient option for those seeking to address their trauma from the comfort of their own space.

LGBTQIA+ Community

I have experience working with the LGBTQIA+ community and understand that being part of this community can be tough, especially when you are different from the majority and want to talk about your feelings for the first time, whether through face to face counselling or online counselling. Members of the LGBTQIA+ community may face discrimination or prejudice due to their sexual orientation or gender identity, which can lead to feelings of isolation, anxiety, or depression. It's important to recognize that these individuals face unique stressors related to their identities, like navigating societal expectations and norms that often don’t align with their gender or sexual orientation. Male psychology, in these contexts, plays a crucial role in understanding the challenges faced by individuals within the community.

Anger Management

Anger is a normal human emotion and can be a healthy one in certain situations. However, it’s crucial to learn how to manage it in a positive manner. Through face to face counselling, we can delve into the root causes of your anger, understand aspects related to male psychology, develop healthy coping mechanisms, and improve our communication skills. Online counselling options are also available for those who prefer it.

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TQ12 4LF, Newton Abbot, Devon, England, United Kingdom

0752 121 3796

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09:00 – 20:00